Thursday, February 11, 2016

Comments from the De Soto Book Discussion Group regarding our February 2016 selection:

The World We Found 

by Thrity Umrigar

Below is a summation of the members' reactions to this work.

February’s book selection is The World We Found by Thrity Umrigar.  This novel focuses on four women living in modern Bombay and recalling their youth and college days together.  Over the years, Armaiti, Kavita, Laleh, and Nishta lose touch because life gets in the way.  Now Armaiti is living in America with her family and she is dying from a brain tumor.  Armaiti’s last wish is to see all her friends again. 

The World We Found receives unanimous praise from the group.  The majority will recommend this novel because of the great characterization Umrigar provides the reader.  The story is touching and real because we all have friends we slowly lost touch with and know the feeling of being reunited.  
 
Most of our discussions led back to Iqbal and Nishta's relationship.  Many could not understand the reasoning behind Nishta's acquiescence to Iqbal's wishes.  How could such a strong woman slowly lose herself and follow all of Iqbal's orders?  We all agree losing touch with Armaiti, Kavita, Laleh, did not help Nishta and could have made her feel even more isolated.  Nishta slowly falls into the routine of wearing a burka, feeding her mother-in-law, living in a rundown apartment in the Muslim part of town, and being unhappy.  We are all surprised at Umrigar's explanation of wearing a burka.  The feeling of claustrophobia and not being able to see what was happening around you sounds terrifying.      

Armaiti’s tumor lead us to share our cancer stories.  The majority of the group has been touched by cancer in some way through family and friends.  We could all emphasize with the friends in this novel wanting to be together again.  Most agree the story would have felt better if Armaiti spoke with Diane, her daughter, about why she did not want treatment and her conflicted feelings about dying.  We have so much more to discuss, but ran out of time.  

Thanks to all the members for making me feel so welcome and part of the group.  I look forward to our monthly meetings and the terrific discussions!